Friday, December 31, 2010

Everything Has A Home

For January my over-arching resolution is simple: Cleanliness.
There are two types of cleanliness I want to work on: Personal Cleanliness and Environmental Cleanliness.

The easier of the two is going to be Environmental. I already know what I want to accomplish, and it has a pretty well laid-out path for me to follow.
  • Declutter: Throw out, give away, sell, or otherwise remove items from my home that I no longer use, have never used, or I'm keeping for no reason.
  • Organize: With what belongings I decide to keep - find a home for them. No more free-floaters (Yes: This means I might be spending more on housewares and the like this month than before. It will be worth it).
  • Everything Has A Home 
  • Maintain: Each day I have a specific chore to attend to, and I've had such a system in place for months now. I need to make certain that I do these chores on their assigned days, as well as spending 15-30 minutes each night making a run-through of the apartment and cleaning up. Maintenance is easier than pure cleaning - if the apartment is maintained, deep cleaning will take, at most, an hour.
  • Schedule: My Daily Domestic Schedule (Chore Chart) is as follows:
    • Monday: Errands - bank runs, food shopping, pay bills, etc. Inventory fridge.
    • Tuesday: Laundry
      • Although there is one day for laundry I plan on it being an ongoing task (much like I won't only do dishes on Friday, when I do a deep cleaning of the kitchen). Tuesday is for the more awkward laundry to be done - laundry that I have to leave home to do (drycleaning, things that should be taken to a laundromat) or that are a bit more time consuming (handwashing).
    • Wednesday: Bedroom and work room need to be cleaned - vacuumed and picked up as necessary. Also deep cleaning the cage.
    • Thursday: Bathrooms need to be cleaned.
    • Friday: Kitchen needs to be cleaned.
    • Saturday: Menu planned for the coming week, any outstanding tasks completed. Light cleaning of the cage.
    • Sunday: Down day.
For Personal I'm planning on starting a personal hygiene routine. This isn't to say that my personal hygiene is horrible, but it is less than perfect. I'm sort of reaching for some of the low-hanging fruits here.
  • Make Habits: Make a habit of basic grooming. Shower every day or every other day, brush and floss teeth every morning and night and use mouthwash at night, brush through hair and try to style it most days.
  • Declutter: When something comes to mind, write it down as soon as possible. Spend as long as needed to empty out everything that's been weighing me down - all the "I need to .... " and "I should ... " type thoughts that have a tendency to creep up on me in the middle of the night. Write down everything.
  • Track My Time: Keep a daily track of what I do and when I do it. Try to cut down on time spent idle when I have something to do - time spent procrastinating or avoiding work.
  • Work When Working, Relax When Relaxing: When I'm working, then focus on my work. When I'm relaxing - unless it's to write down or record something that comes to mind - then I should focus on relaxing. No more cross contamination.

Reasons

I became interested in doing a Happiness Project for myself when I started reading (I honestly got to Rubin's first month and had decided that I was going to do a Happiness Project for myself), and I became interested in the book when it showed up in my Amazon search while I was looking for something else (can't remember what that was, though).

For the last five or six years of my life I've been identifying as "depressed" - I've been letting my clinical depression rule my life, and I've allowed myself to be too paralyzed by anxiety to overcome that.

I decided to start my own Happiness Project in the hopes that I can finally start truly living my life, not just watching it pass by me as I let it slip through my fingers.

So, I'm starting this project - it's like a year-long quest: Achieve Maximum Happiness. I'm nervous, excited, and really looking forward to it. The failure-option for this plan is really not that bad (the current status quo is maintained), and the success-option is one of the most important things I can do in this life (achieve happiness and contentment).

I only have ideas for the first two months, and that is as far ahead as I'm planning right now.